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Women are complex creatures, and understanding what they find attractive in a man can be like trying to read Mandarin for some men - and that’s totally fine.
Between social media warping our perceptions of reality and the totally inaccurate portrayal of both sexes in modern entertainment, men have little to go off of these days.
As part of our mission to build confidence in men around the world, and with Valentine’s Day right around the corner, I put together this guide to help you be more attractive to women without compromising on who you are.
Everything in here applies for both taken and single men; if you already have a woman, you gotta maintain that attraction.
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Confidence is key when it comes to attracting women; it’s just how it is. Women are naturally drawn to men who are self-assured and know what they want.
As a man, you’re the protector and provider, and a man who protects and provides doesn’t walk around with his tail between your legs.
To build confidence, balance your life with getting better at that you’re good at and trying new experiences. The combination of trusting yourself in a familiar environment and being comfortable in unfamiliar experiences will do wonders for your self-esteem.
And of course, wear Drawlz. If you got shabby old boxers on that make you itch your bawlz with an uncomfortable look on your face, you won’t be attractive no matter how confident you are.
Take Care of Your Appearance
How you present yourself externally is a direct representation of how you treat yourself and those around you.
Everyone’s got their own style, you do you - but if a woman sees that you’re sloppy with whatever style you got, it’s a no-go from the get-go for her. If you can’t take care of yourself, she knows that you won’t be able to take care of her, either.
Never compromise on who you are, just stay on top of your drip. If you got a beard, trim it up. If you wear glasses, keep the smudges off the lens. If you have holes in your drawers, get some Drawlz. What would you think if you saw a woman with stained, tattered old panties on? Same goes for men.
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This is an easy win for you; respect is not easy to find anywhere, so living a life of respect already sets you apart from the rest.
Before you can respect others, you gotta respect yourself. Aside from taking care of your appearance, you can build self-respect by setting and enforcing boundaries with others, learn to say no, be assertive, and surround yourself with those who do the same.
Once you respect yourself, the rest will fall into place, and you’ll attract a woman who also respects herself - and that is the kind of woman you want long-term.
Women are drawn to men who have a sense of purpose and are driven to achieve their goals, so show that you have ambition and are working towards something meaningful. This can be anything from career goals to personal aspirations, as long as it is something that you’re passionate about.
A key point about ambition in regards to attraction is that you must live it, not just talk about it; conversely, make sure that your ambitions aren’t all you talk about, or you’ll come across as self-absorbed.
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Women are attracted to men who are self-sufficient and able to stand on their own two feet i.e. independent. Just like everything else on this list, independence is something you are, not something you talk about being.
If you’re already in a relationship, check yourself to make sure that you haven’t become co-dependent. This can rot otherwise steady relationships from the inside out seeing as the woman senses that you’re dependent on her in some way.
Women want to be protected and know that they can fall back on you if anything happens, and if they think that they have to protect you in any way, even emotionally, it’s the beginning of the end.
While every woman is attracted to their own type of man, every woman is attracted to a man that’s confident, stylish, respectful, ambitious, and independent. The crazies online can screech all they want, but that’s how it’s always been, how it is, and how it always will be.
By embodying these principles without sacrificing who you are as a person, you’ll attract, or keep, your perfect match.
One more thing - don’t be fooled by identifying bad habits with who you are. Just because you’ve done something for most of your life, doesn’t mean it’s a part of you, and it may be one of the things keeping your love life in the dugout.
Anthony, Founder @ Drawlz
Great and true advice.